[sim] Change StepTiming to wait for notifiers (#2603)

Old behavior is available via StepTimingAsync.

This makes it significantly easier to use simulation timing with notifiers.

Also update tests to use simulation framework.  This also speeds up the
timing-dependent tests by using simulation timing.  ResourceLock is used
in the Java tests to prevent parallel execution.

While we're here, tweak HAL Notifier implementation:
- Use wait_for instead of wait_until in WaitForNotifierAlarm
- Check for triggerTime = UINT64_MAX in UpdateNotifierAlarm

hal/src/main/native/sim/NotifierInternal.h

@@ -1,5 +1,5 @@
 /*----------------------------------------------------------------------------*/
-/* Copyright (c) 2019 FIRST. All Rights Reserved.                             */
+/* Copyright (c) 2019-2020 FIRST. All Rights Reserved.                        */
 /* Open Source Software - may be modified and shared by FRC teams. The code   */
 /* must be accompanied by the FIRST BSD license file in the root directory of */
 /* the project.                                                               */
@@ -11,4 +11,5 @@ namespace hal {
 void PauseNotifiers();
 void ResumeNotifiers();
 void WakeupNotifiers();
+void WakeupWaitNotifiers();
 }  // namespace hal